You are right, Lisa. And yet, regardless of whether something should be given, soetimes it is. Sometimes a relationship can startle a person awake...and I felt as if I hadbeen sleeping. This is a turning point; he was the catalyst. But he's scared, and hates his "balance" upset--as if I couldn't relate to that. He's pushing, and waiting to see if I'll walk away or push back. I plan on pushing back.

Anywho, I'm glad that you liked this piece girl. It needed to be written. I had no other choice. lol. *smile* Thanks girl!

Love and unintended silence, Ali